Change!

In one of my previous posts,human nature, i mentioned that part of our nature was having negatives in our character. It's normal. However, i forgot to mention that it doesn't mean that we must leave things how they are. It's true that we have to accept ourselves as we are and it's others choice to accept us or not. But as a favor to do to yourself,to your soul or to your being, is to look at yourself in the mirror and think of the negatives that need to be changed. This doesn't mean that you're changing to please others! No absolutely! It's to please yourself, to be proud of yourself. We all know that no one is perfect. Yet we have a goal to try to reach to the nearest level to perfection. And to achieve that we have to work on ourselves. So right now go get a pen and a paper and write all that your character includes, positives and negatives. Then hold it in front of you and ask yourself," if i knew someone like that,will i trust him? Will he be close to me? Will i like his company? Will i like talking to him? Will he help me in trouble?". Then start answering and evaluate your character. Treat others the way you like to be treated and be who YOU want to be. Don't wait for someone to change you because he might never come. Have the courage to stand up for yourself and be proud of who you are. PS. Never mind my stupid drawing. I was never good at it .LOL!