Life Aspect

Today i just let it all out. What i've kept for the past months couldn't keep it for a few more days. With reference to my last blog about forgiving people, i would like to add that we need to forgive them up to a certain limit. We give them chances to change and wait. We help them change as much as we can because we care about them and we wish for them the best. However, as much as they are "human beings", we are too. Life can't be all about giving nor all about taking. When you find yourself giving too much expecting something in return but nothing comes out, we need to step back,just like opening a factory. We spend money on buying machines, equipments, paying salaries, hiring workers, offering them accomodation and everything expecting good products coming out. If we lose on the first trial, we could wait for the second, the third, even the forth..until you realize that you've done the best you could to improve and gain profit but the problem was never with you. Other factors can also affect. Same as with people. You're not the only one to blame;the other partner should be blamed too. Because sometime he could be the one who didn't help in improving himself. However ,at the end, you feel disappointed about all the time and money wasted on a product that was never ment to succeed. But think positive! Atleast you've tried. Atleast you did the best you can do to help others.

Forgiving the Beast

When you're mad at someone..you don't think about ever talking to him again. Rage takes over and everyone expects you to do anything. All that comes into your mind is how humilated you were and stupid to just forgive that person after all he has done and will do over and over again. But the thing is..I wouldn't believe it was easy not to talk to him for a long time. It never is easy to just block someone out of you life after meaning a lot to you. Either a father or a brother, a sister or a mother, a friend or a lover even if he was an enemy, he is still a human being. We shall all admit that no one is perfect, a statement we hear about almost everyday. It's just that you might not realise the negatives in your character but they surelly do exist. Same as for that person. No matter how cruel he is, how disrespectful and most of all how "insensitive" his behavior or attitude is..He is still a human being with as much negatives ,as it may seem, as positives inside, even those you don't see. You must be sure that there comes a time when you feels like leaving all this world and depressed just like anyone. However he might lake confidence in those around him so he finds no one there to talk to and he's just left out. As for us,it's okay to feel angry and sad. However what's most important is just to know the "feeling" and never allow it to take over. We need to tell ourselves"Okay that's anger.Now i know it..DETACH". I'm sure we all don't want to be doing something we'll regret one day. Besides,one day..when you feel down and obliged to fake infront of everyone including family and friends..he might be the only one to notice it and talk to you..maybe now you can see his bright side. I know how difficult it is..but we all need to forgive to live. I really hope that one day we could all feel the presence of those good and bad ones around us. We need to repect others and their point of view no matter how different it is from ours. I mean they must be right about something don't you think? Again, just try as hard as you can putting yourself in others place before judging or taking an action against them. Will you wish someone to be hated, humilated, depressed, or left out as you are? Wish for others the best not the worse and never try helping in making it worse even if it was for revenge. We Are All Human Beings.