Change!

In one of my previous posts,human nature, i mentioned that part of our nature was having negatives in our character. It's normal. However, i forgot to mention that it doesn't mean that we must leave things how they are. It's true that we have to accept ourselves as we are and it's others choice to accept us or not. But as a favor to do to yourself,to your soul or to your being, is to look at yourself in the mirror and think of the negatives that need to be changed. This doesn't mean that you're changing to please others! No absolutely! It's to please yourself, to be proud of yourself. We all know that no one is perfect. Yet we have a goal to try to reach to the nearest level to perfection. And to achieve that we have to work on ourselves. So right now go get a pen and a paper and write all that your character includes, positives and negatives. Then hold it in front of you and ask yourself," if i knew someone like that,will i trust him? Will he be close to me? Will i like his company? Will i like talking to him? Will he help me in trouble?". Then start answering and evaluate your character. Treat others the way you like to be treated and be who YOU want to be. Don't wait for someone to change you because he might never come. Have the courage to stand up for yourself and be proud of who you are. PS. Never mind my stupid drawing. I was never good at it .LOL!

Missing Someone

Sometimes we all get that feeling,after a day,a week,or years, which is remembering someone..someone you don't get to see or talk to anymore these days. But the problem is not in remembering the person but in remembering the memories you had together. You start having flashbacks of situations and moments you shared together ,and you were there. Then you start seeing him ,as I call it literally seeing him, in front of you and the whole scene would be there and you would be just watching and you suddenly have a smile on your face. Then you start wondering why did you stop talking, why you don't see that person anymore, where is he ,and if it is possible to connect with him some time. This brings me to my previous post about protecting your world ,and the thing is that when you talk to them again you might find that things changed. This person changed; they're not as you left them before,how they are..their character changed. Yours surely did change too ,but you start even thinking if he is still your type or not.. if you can get along together or not.. If he is still one of these people that add strength to you or not. And you stop thinking about all these questions ,and you start missing him again. You find yourself having this thought of not caring about all these questions and all You care about right now is that You're talking to someone You miss so much and You miss your talks together. You miss your days, your memories together, and you wish they were all back. Sometimes we all have that one question which is what is the worst feeling in life and I honestly don't know but I can assure you that missing someone is one of these worst feelings, specially if when you come to talk to them again you don't find them the same anymore. It's like you lost them-lost the old them.